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Sexual Abuse Suits Against Jehovah's Witnesses Will
Follow, Predicts Ex-Church Elder & Legal Expert
Denomination
On "The Edge
Of A Crisis," Says Long Time Witness
New Support Group for Molestation Victims Forms
A federal civil sexual abuse lawsuit filed last week in
Dozens more victims of other abusive church leaders may file similar suits,
they predict.
Last Tuesday, a 23 year old
The case is significant because it is one of a relatively small number filed
against the Jehovah's Witnesses' national headquarters.
One of Rodriguez' attorney’s in the case, Jeffrey Anderson of St. Paul
Minnesota, has filed more sexual abuse suits against religious bodies than any
other legal expert. "In my experience over the last 20 years, a handful
of brave victims step forward in any denomination. Then, others who are
hurting become inspired to seek healing too," he said.
"Our denomination is now where the Catholic Church was 20 years ago -
right on the edge of a crisis," said William H. Bowen of
"In just a few months, with a shoestring budget and a volunteer staff,
our group has been contacted by nearly 1,000 Witnesses and former Witnesses
who have been raped or molested by church members," Bowen claimed. The
alleged victims range in age from 2 to 15 from
Repressive and insular church policies, a rigid hierarchy and a strong
emphasis on obeying church authorities combine to "trap victims in a cult
of silence," Bowen believes. Members of other faith groups who are abused
are more apt to speak up and consult attorneys or turn to police, he feels.
"Both formally and informally, Witnesses are taught to take all matters,
especially controversial matters, to church leaders, and to avoid bringing
shame on the church," said Barbara Anderson, another leader in "silentlambs."
But that "cult of silence" is slowly changing, she believes.
"More and more Witnesses realize that exposing sexual crimes is God's
will. They recognize that getting rid of molesters is healthy for the
church." Witnesses are "encouraged, even inspired" by the
example of victims in Catholic and Protestant denominations who have sued
their perpetrators with increasing success in recent years, she said.
"We find that the more conservative and controlling a church group is,
the harder it is for someone who has been victimized to come forward,"
said attorney Timothy Kosnoff of
"That's why having a support group is so helpful, and that's why getting
the police or a therapist or any outside professional involved is
critical," he said.
While the Jehovah's Witnesses headquarters maintains extensive internal files
on accused molesters within the church, they refuse to make public this
information. In many cases, they do not report the crime to police, Bowen
said. As a result, no solid figures exist on the number of Jehovah's
Witnesses who have been accused of sexual molestation.
"Whatever that number is, you can be sure it's going to start growing
quickly and dramatically," said Bowen. "Victims are starting to
discover that the church can no longer bully them into silence."
The denomination has one million members in the
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Thanks,
Bill
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