PRESS
RELEASE JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES
Wednesday,
July 31
Contact:
William
H. Bowen: KY 270-527-5350, cell 270-559-5345 silentlambs.org
Jeff
Anderson: (attorney) MN 651-227-9990, 612-817-8665
Sex
Abuse whistleblowers booted out by Jehovah's Witnesses National headquarters
Church Leaders Continue Pattern of “stoning” Abuse Survivors to
Silence Them.
The
Brooklyn-based organization of Jehovah's Witnesses leadership renewed
excommunication proceedings against four long-time members and others who have
spo
ken
out about the problem of child molestation within the organization. They
believe it is result of investigative reports from Dateline and the BBC
Program Panorama,
William H. Bowen, of
Calvert
City
who is founder of the organization "silentlambs," (www.silentlambs.org)
a support group for victims of child abuse who were molested as Jehovah’s
Witnesses, spoke out as a former elder on Dateline and Panorama about how
children are being harmed by Watchtower policy.
Last Thursday he was notified that he had been disfellowshipped
in a secret hearing. He sent his appeal (enclosed) on Monday.
Bowen comments: "In
May of this year the Governing Body (Jehovah’s Witness leadership) attempted
to disfellowship us, when the media reported it,
they backed off. Now they are
trying to silence the truth, this is a public evidence of what happens when
loyal Jehovah’s Witnesses try to speak out about child abuse.”
Jeffrey Anderson of
St.
Paul
,
Minnesota
,
has filed more sexual abuse suits against religious bodies than any other
legal expert. "In my experience over the last 20 years, a handful of
brave victims step forward in any denomination. It is healing to let them know
they are believed and so sad when that does not happen," He said.
"This isn't the first time church leaders have punished those who
expose wrong doing. But every time this happens, it's sad" said David
Clohessy of
St.
Louis
.
He is the national director of SNAP, the Chicago-based Survivors Network of
those Abused by Priests "Bowen and Anderson and their colleagues deserve
praise, not condemnation. Children are more important than the image of the
church."
Bowen states, "Since January, 2001, I have been contacted by over
5,000 people who were molested as Jehovah’s Witnesses. I have spo
ken
to hundreds who were threatened with excommunication if they tried to speak
out.”
Bowen said when press reported the commencement of judicial hearings
many came forward and wished to provide confirmation it happened to them.
The following is a cross section of those persons:
Barbara Anderson, 62 of Norm
andy
TN, was disfellowshipped for speaking out on child
abuse. She is a forme
r
r
esearcher
who worked for the Church's Writing Department, in
Brooklyn
,
New
York
,
she is featured on Dateline speaking out about child molestation cover-ups
that go all the way up to the denomination’s Governing Body.
Anderson
,
learned Sunday that her appeal was denied, said the church is acting ''so that
Jehovah's Witnesses will feel that they are justified to say to others that we
are liars.'' 931-455-6910
Carl and Barbara Pandelo of
Belmar
NJ
,
when Dateline interviewed them they described how callously they were treated
by Jehovah's Witness elders after they revealed the molestation of their
daughter by another Witness. The Pandelos’
received a letter last May summoning them for a hearing on
"apostasy" charges. The letter also encouraged them to
"disassociate" themselves. An eight man elder committee met and disfellowshipped
the Pandelos’ who flatly denied the allegations
as false. Their final appeal is
pending as of Thursday. 732-280-5776
Laurie Fitzwater, 31, of Rifle, CO, was disfellowshipped
when she tried to warn other congregation members her father in-law had
molested at least 17 little girls according to church records.
Though he was later convicted and sent to prison, the church did not
review he
r
r
emoval.
970-625-5070
Loris Matheny- 55, of
Clearwater
FL
,
a faithful Jehovah’s Witness for 37 years and mother of eight children, was
silenced by the elders when she tried to report the abuse of her son.
When Newsweek ran an article about Jehovah’s Witnesses and abuse, she
wrote a letter saying she knew first hand how abuse was covered up and
implored headquarters to take action to protect children.
Last Monday two elder arrived at her home saying they were authorized
by home office to meet with her. “I was informed it was viewed as a
deviation from the faith to question official policy or express concerns
openly. To speak about internal
problems to outsiders is strictly forbidden, if I said anything further I
would be disfellowshipped as an apostate,” she
comments. 813-837-1668
Joe
Anderson-67 of
Norm
andy
,
TN, husband of Barb Anderson and a faithful Jehovah’s Witness for over 50
years, resigned as an elder of over 43 years in protest of Watchtower policy
on child abuse in June, 2002. In
his letter he humbly requests the church to make needed changes to protect
children. Tonight he is summoned
to a judicial hearing for “causing divisions” because he sent a copy of
the letter to fellow elders in his congregation and two members of the
Governing Body who were personal friends.
Joe comments, “I wrote my letter as a measure of love, it appears I
will be silenced also.” 931-455-6910
Kristi Hynes-35, of
Appleboro
,
MA
,
was a faithful Jehovah’s Witness who was baptized at age 13.
When she came forward at age 14 to report being raped by her step
father from the age of 5-14, she was threatened by elders with disfellowshipment
if she told anyone. It destroyed
her faith in the church and she left at age 18 never to return.
“It was a violation of trust I wil
l
n
eve
r
r
ecover
from,” she says. 508-208-0070
Heidi
Hendricks-43, of
Chewelah
,
WA
,
is a second generation Jehovah’s Witness who was very active in the faith,
was disfellowsipped in October, 2001 along with
her father Larry Larson, a member for close to 50 years, for trying to warn
others in the congregation about the molestation of her children by their
step-father. “We were labeled
apostates for trying to protect their children.”
Heidi states.509-935-0854
Bruce Keefe-44,
Hampton
NY
,
is a third generation Jehovah’s Witness.
While serving as an elder, allegations of abuse were brought to his
attention regarding a fellow elder, when he went to local elders to request an
investigation he was disfellowshipped in April
2000, for making it known to authorities.
He comments, “I wanted to protect children in the congregation, they
wanted silence.” 518-282-9978
Tammy
Wilson-26 of Sylacauga, AL, is a second generation Jehovah’s Witness who was
raped and beaten repeatedly from age 9 -14 by her father who remains an elder
in the congregation. When I went
to the elders at 14, I was told to be silent, to not bring reproach on
Jehovah, to honor my father as it was my word against his.”
She says. Tammy has since left the church. 334-742-2089
Heidi Meyer-22 of
St
Paul
,
MN
,
a third generation Jehovah’s Witness, filed along with another woman only
listed as Jane Doe, a civil lawsuit this month.
They both allege they were abused by a male member of their
congregation. When they came forward they were told to not tell anyone or be disfellowhipped
for slander. “The elders’ said he was innocent because we did not have a
second eye-witness when he molested us.” Heidi comments. 763-360-2680
The
denomination has one million members in the United States and six million
across the world.
Bowen’s
Appeal Letter:
7-29-02
Draffenville
Congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses
Judicial Committee Elders of:
Murray
Congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses
Central
City Congregation of Jehovah Witnesses
Any other congregations in which elders have been appointed to my
judicial committee
Dear
Brothers,
I
wish to appeal the decision made to disfellowship
me. The reason is because of an
error in judgment due to the deceptive manner which the judicial committee
operated in the face of my flat denial of any wrongdoing.
I have not committed any sin against God or the organization.
The judicial committee failed to produce any eye-witnesses to back up
their allegations, thus they have no case against me.
As you wil
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ote from previous correspondence over the course of the last 19 months I have
endeavored to communicate extensively to the organization regarding the need
to change WT policy when it comes to abuse and also to request apology and/or
explanation for sanctions that have been directed against me by the Governing
Body of Jehovah’s Witnesses. I
find it despicable that any elder would cooperate with such wicked actions at
their direction. For you
r r
eview I offer the following:
- Placing
restrictions on me within the congregation without any charges of
wrongdoing to make it appear to the congregation I had sinned in some way.
- Watchtowe
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epresentatives giving numerous talks in which it is inferred I am a liar
and all allegations are false on the deficiencies of WT policy regarding
child abuse.
- WT
Public Information distributing a video to media in which my father is
coerced to call me a liar along with Earl Norman and
JR
Brown.
- Forbidden
to have assignments on the
Theocratic
Ministry
School
and withdrawn as Watchtowe
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eader to put forth the appearance to the congregation a judicial committee
had offered sanction.
- Instructing
the Draffenville Congregation to go
door-to-door and tell the public that I am liar.
- Forbidding
me to work with the congregation in field service.
- Instructing
brothers and sisters in my congregation to treat me as disfellowshipped.
- Deceptive
comments to the media to create an impression to the public that myself
and other advocates have committed “other” sins against God. (a
bald-faced lie)
- Pressuring
fellow witnesses to stop working in my candle business due to negative
comments by representatives of Watchtower leadership.
- Deceptively
saying you cannot find a KM, personal literature orders and magazines when
I have requested them.
- Elders
informing me I was not welcome at meetings.
- Supporting
the local child molester by awarding him privileges in the congregation.
- I
made numerous requests in writing for assistance in resolving the above
matters but the Governing Body instructed you to ignore my cry for help.
As you brothers are well aware I base my comments on matters that I have
dealt with personally, that is, actions I have seen with my own eyes and heard
with my own ears. If you happened
to watch Dateline and BBC Panorama you of course can see on national
television the truthfulness of my statements backed up with factual evidence
from the abuse survivors themselves. If
these programs were all lies as Watchtower has informed many brothers and
sisters, why have they not moved to sue these programs to protect their good
name? Jeff Steen is well
aware that what I have stated locally is the truth as he participated in the
investigation as well as telephone conversations to Service Department. Yet he
sits on a judicial committee to disfellowship me?
What kind of “spiritual man” does he prove himself to be?
In a court of justice for a judgment to be fair and impartial certain
protocols must be met. Within the
Jehovah’s Witness court certain protocol is outlined in the elder book,
“Pay Attention to Yourselves and All the Flock”.
The judicial committee in following the directions of the Governing
Body, failed to follow the written guidelines in the course of my hearing,
therefore the judgment was unfair and partial.
I offer the following examples:
- Arranging
a hearing in writing and the judicial committee not showing up.
- Refusing
to communicate answers to clarifying questions for the hearing by ignoring
all correspondence.
- Failure
to provide eye-witnesses to rebut my denial of any wrongdoing.
- Conducting
a secret judicial hearing without informing me.
- Ignoring
a second “arranged in writing” meeting without any communication.
- Repeated
harassment by not following my respectful request to have all
communication go through my attorney.
- Failure
to provide description of the charges against me in the latest hearings.
- Failure
of the chairman to provide correspondence to the accused as instructed in
“Flock” book.
- By
the actions of the committee I was denied my right to present
“witnesses” in my behalf.
- Failure
of the committee to provide “suitable” and “convenient”
arrangements for the time of the hearing by using deception and short
notice.
I believe these actions of ignoring all protocol for this “kangaroo”
hearing has been personally directed by the Governing Body in order to silence
the call for proper actions to be ta
ken
in behalf of children. The local
judicial committee has not acted for the sake of righteousness, but instead as
men without morals or ethics who simply obey as instructed.
It is a similar process followed when child molesters are exposed in
the congregation as directed by the Governing Body.
When these matters began I held hope that righteous men would rise up to
protect the children in our organization.
I hoped some of those men would be found on the Governing Body who
would stand up and stop policies that allow children to be raped.
In the course of the last nineteen months instead of proving themselves
righteous the Governing Body has committed actions that prove them to be
wicked men.
In
the illustration of the “Faithful and Discreet Slave” it is interesting to
note the comment made in Luke 12: 43-45;
“Happy
is THAT
slave, if his master on arriving finds him doing so! 44. I tell you
truthfully, He will appoint him over all his belongings. 45. But
if ever THAT
slave should say in his heart, “My master is delays in coming, and should
start to beat the menservants and the maidservants, and to eat and drink and
get drunk.”
You
see brothers in the illustration the “slave” is one man with an option, to
be good or to be wicked. The Governing Body as appointed leaders of the FDS
has instituted actions that have “beat” the
children of this organization. When
anyone speaks out about this, they are “beaten” by the threat and use of disfellowshipping
as a way to silence proper action in behalf of children.
“THAT
slave” has become “evil” when it hurts children.
Since 1992 the Governing Body was clearly informed by a written report
to each member, that children are being raped as a result of negligence in WT
Policy. With great wickedness and
23,000 child molesters later, to this day they have refused to act.
My June letter to the Service Committee requested a solution to this by
following theocratic guidelines within organizational arrangement on September
27th. Result? The
Governing Body appoints a judicial committee to disfellowship
me ignoring all protocols for doing so. Do
you really believe you can have Jehovah’s spirit and follow the bidding of
wicked men? If I am wrong in this
reasoning I invite you brothers to prove otherwise.
This
proceeding has to date been completely partial, unfair, deceptive, and unjust.
Will you as an appeal committee stand fo
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ighteousness? I await your
communication for a hearing. I also request sufficient time to bring
eye-witnesses and agree to face any witnesses who may wish to testify against
me. Please provide a wee
ken
d time frame and a specific meeting time in writing to my attorney.
Very truly yours,
William
H. Bowen
Jehovah’s
Witnesses Definition of Disfellowshipping:
Display
Christian Loyalty when a Relative Is Disfellowshipped
Kingdom
Ministry-August 2002-JW-Monthly Journal
1 The
bond between family members can be very strong. This brings a test upon a
Christian when a marriage mate, a child, a parent, or another close relative
is disfellowshipped or has disassociated himself
from the congregation. (Matt. 10:37) How should loyal Christians treat such a
relative? Does it make a difference if the person lives in your household?
First, let us review what the Bible says on this subject, the principles of
which apply equally to those who are disfellowshipped
and to those who disassociate themselves.
2
How to Treat Expelled Ones: God's
Word commands Christians not to keep company or fellowship with a person who
has been expelled from the congregation: "Quit mixing in company with anyone
called a brother that is a fornicator or a greedy person or an
idolater or a reviler or a drunkard or an extortioner,
not even eating with such a man.... Remove the wicked man from among
yourselves." (1 Cor.5:11, 13) Jesus' words recorded at Matthew 18:17 also
bear on the matter: "Let [the expelled one] be to you just as a man of
the nations and as a tax collector." Jesus' hearers well knew that the
Jews of that day had no fraternization with Gentiles and that they shunned tax
collectors as outcasts. Jesus was thus instructing his followers not to
associate with expelled ones.--See The
Watchtower of
September
15, 1981
.
pages 18-20.
3
This means that loyal Christians do not have spiritual fellowship with anyone
who has been expelled from the congregation. But more is involved, God's Word
states that we should 'not even eat with
such a man.' (1 Cor. 5:11) Hence, we
also avoid social fellowship with an expelled person, this would rule out
joining him in a picnic, party, or trip to the shops or theater or sitting
down to a meal with him either in the home or at a restaurant.
4
What about speaking with a disfellowshipped
person? While the Bible does not cover every possible situation, 2 John 10
helps us to get Jehovah's view of matters: "If anyone comes to you and
does not bring this teaching, neve
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r
eceive
him into your homes or say a greeting to him." Commenting on this, The
Watchtower of September 15.1981, page 25, says: "A simple
'Hello' to someone can be the first step that develops into a conversation and
maybe even a friendship- Would we want to take that first step with a disfellowshiped
person?"
5
Indeed, it is just as page 31 of the same issue of The Watchtower
states: "The fact is that when a Christian gives himself over
to sin and has to be disfellowshiped, he forfeits
much: his approved standing with God; . . . sweet fellowship with the
brothers, including much of the association he had with Christian
relatives."
6
1n
the Immediate Household: Does
this mean that Christians living in the same household with a disfellowshipped
family member are to avoid talking to, eating with, and associating with that
one as they go about their daily activities? The
Watchtower of
April
15, 1991
,
in the footnote on page 22, states: -If in a Christian's household
there is a disfellowshipped relative, that one
would still be part of the normal, day-to-day household dealings and
activities." Thus, it would be left to members of the family to decide on
the extent to which the disfellowshipped family
member would be included when eating or engaging in other household
activities. And yet, they would not want to give brothers with whom they
associate the impression that everything is the same as it was before the disfellowshipping
occurred
7 However,
The
Watchtower of
September
15, 1981
,
page 28, points out regarding the disfellowshipped
or disassociated person: "Former spiritual ties have been completely
severed. This is true even with respect to his relatives, including those
within his immediate family circle.... That will mean changes in the spiritual
fellowship that may have existed in the home. For example, if the husband is disfellowshiped,
his wife and children wil
l
n
ot
be comfortable with him conducting a family Bible study or leading in Bible
reading and prayer. It he wants to say a prayer, such as at mealtime. He has a
right to do so in his own home. But they can silently offer their own prayers
to God. (Prov. 28:9; Ps. 119:145, 146) What if a disfellowshiped
person in the home wants to be present when the family reads the Bible
together or has a Bible study? The others might let him be present to listen
if he wil
l
n
ot
try to teach them or share his religious ideas."
8
If a minor child living in the home is disfellowshipped,
Christian parents are still responsible for his upbringing. The Watchtower of
November
15, 1988
,
page 20, states: "Just as they will continue to provide him with food,
clothing, and shelter, they need to instruct and discipline him in line with
God's Word. (Proverbs 6:20-22; 29:17) Loving parents may thus arrange to have
a home Bible study with him, even if he is disfellowshipped.
Maybe he will derive the most corrective benefit from their studying with him
alone. Or they may decide that he can continue to share in the family study
arrangement."-See also The Watchtower of
October
1, 2001
,
pages 16-17.
9
Relatives
Not in the Household: "The
situation is different if the disfellowshipped or
disassociated one is a relative living outside the immediate
family circle and home," states The Watchtower of
April
15, 1988
,
page 28. "It might be possible to have almost no contact at all with the
relative. Even if there were some family matters requiring contact, this
certainly would be kept to a minimum," in harmony with the divine
injunction to "quit mixing in company with anyone"
who is guilty of sinning unrepentantly. (1 Cor.
5:11) Loyal Christians should strive to avoid needless association with such a
relative, even keeping business dealings to an absolute minimum. See also The
Watchtower of
September
15, 1981
,
pages 29-30.
10 The
Watchtower
addresses another situation that can arise: "What if a close relative,
such as a son or a parent who does not live in the home, is disfellowshiped
and subsequently wants to move back there? The family could decide what to do
depending on the situation. For example, a disfellowshiped
parent may be sick or no longer able to care for himself financially or physically.
The Christian children have a Scriptural and moral obligation to assist. (1
Tim. 5:8) ... What is done may depend on factors
such as the parent's true needs, his
attitude and the regard the
head of the household has for the spiritual welfare of the household."
The Watchtower of
September
15, 1981
,
pages 28-9.
11
As
for a child, the same article continues: "Sometimes Christian parents
have accepted back into the home for a time a disfellowshiped
child who has become physically, or emotionally ill. But in each
case the parents can weigh the individual circumstances. Has a disfellowshiped
son lived on his own, and is he now unable to do
so? Or does he want to move back primarily because it would be an easier
life'? What about his morals and attitude? Will he bring 'leaven' into the
home?-Gal. 5:9.
12
Benefits
of Being Loyal to Jehovah: Cooperating
with the Scriptural arrangement to disfellowship
and shun unrepentant wrongdoers is beneficial. It preserves the cleanness of
the congregation and distinguishes us as upholders of the Bible's high moral
standards. (1 Pet. 1:1416) It protects us from corrupting influences. (Gal.
5:7-9) It also affords the wrongdoer an opportunity to benefit fully from the
discipline received, which can help him to produce "peaceable fruit,
namely, righteousness."- Heb. 12:11.
13
After
hearing a talk at a circuit assembly, a brother and his fleshly siste
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r
ealized
that they needed to make adjustments in the way they treated their mother, who
lived elsewhere and who had been disfellowshipped
for six years. Immediately
after the assembly, the man called his mother.
and after assuring her of their love, he explained
that they could no longer talk to her unless there were important family
matters requiring contact. Shortly thereafter, his mother
began attending meetings and was eventually reinstated.
Also, her unbelieving husband began studying and in time was
baptized.
14
Loyally upholding the disfellowshipping
arrangement outlined in the Scriptures demonstrates our love for Jehovah and
provides an answer to the one that is taunting Him. (Prov.
27: 11) In turn, we can be assured of Jehovah's blessing. King David wrote
regarding Jehovah: "As for his statutes, I shal
l
n
ot
turn aside from them. With someone loyal you will act in loyalty."-2 Sam.
22:23, 26.